10 DATING RULE DON’TS

Posted on: February 9th, 2008 by admin

Following up to yesterday’s expert guest blogger post, here is the second half to Stephany’s Dating Do’s and Don’ts, also some further information about her business’s and accomplishments.

Yes, she has a lot of street cred.

I’m honored to have had her on my radio show Authentic Dating, conversations in the raw as one of my first guests.
Wednesday’s Show

1. Don’t be late for a date. Make sure you leave early enough to deal with traffic delays or other things that could delay you. Being late shows that you don’t respect the other person’s time and sets the date off on the wrong foot.
2. Don’t chase someone. Don’t phone, text or email them more than once a day unless you are in a conversation with them and they are replying. Being desperate is a huge turn off.
3. Don’t date people who you think will use you. If you have money, don’t tell the other person. If a man comes on too strong for sex early on, shut him down and move on. You want someone who wants you for you, not what you can do for them or give them. Once they get what they want, they’ll move on to their next target.
4. Don’t lie to your date. Don’t over exaggerate your income, education or what you do. These lies will eventually come out and then you will appear as a dishonest loser.
5. Don’t come on too strong. If you are anxious to get married right away, that’s okay. However, constantly talking about serious commitment issues such as marriage and children on a first date can scare your date away.
6. Don’t sit around and wait for his or her call. Stay busy. There is nothing more pathetic than someone who immediately drops their life or routine for someone they just met. Your goal is to have a fulfilled life that another person can add to.
7. Don’t get drunk or use drugs on your date. What kind of an impression are you making if you are incoherent when you first meet? Your date will think you are like that with all people.
8. Don’t flirt with others while on a date. This may seem like common sense but nothing will end your date faster than you hitting on your date’s friend.
9. Don’t have sex with someone until you have dated a while. A while does not mean 1 or 2 dates. If it was meant to be, it will be and part of the fun of dating is the thrill of the chase.
10. Don’t give out too much personal information on a first date. Keep your home address and telephone number confidential until you get to know your date better and make sure you always meet in a public place.
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About the Author:
Dating Expert, Stephany Alexander, B.A., Author, Women’s Speaker
Credentials: Stephany Alexander is the founder of WomanSavers.com one of the most popular women’s sites on the net (top 5%) receiving millions of hits per month.
* Founder – highest trafficked abused women’s message board on the net
* Founder of Largest Online Database of Men in the World
* Author of ‘Sex, Lies and the Internet,’ A Survival Guide to Online Dating SexLiesAndTheInternet
* Online dating expert on numerous talks shows and call-in radio shows
* Author of hundreds of articles on online dating and relationships
* Author of 22 dating and relationship quizzes
* Internet Polling Expert on relationship and dating issues, surveying over 350,000 women in on-line polls
* Creator of 10 women’s comedy cartoon e-cards, including one claymation
* Creator of 6 women’s online games, one arcade quality
Ms. Alexander is frequently called on by the media as the nation’s leading Dating Expert. Featured on: FOX, CBS Early Show, Mike & Juliet Show, Sirius Satellite, KROQ, KIIS, Esquire Magazine, Wall Street Journal, NY Times, and countless radio shows.

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