Online Sex Wanted, May 2005.

Part 2.

And here is the second half to the chapter from my book Don’t Use My Sweater Like A Towel where I had a one night fling with a man I had met on Match.com. For sure something I would never do ever again.

Chapter Eighteen.
I was having dinner with a girlfriend that night, so Chad and I made plans to meet afterward for a drink at the Baja Cantina. I was satisfied with what I saw. He was a sexy brunette with brown eyes and a nice build. He looked even younger than his age. We had one cocktail. Though the chemistry wasn’t completely overwhelming, there was enough to head back to my house without wasting time.

I felt safe with Chad; I was confident that he was not a mass murderer or a serial rapist. He was a good lover, and like Room #104, another man who seemed to watch porn. Not that I am an expert, but I have seen enough in my life that I can recognize requests that come from an aficionado.

I had on great four-inch heels—extremely rock ’n’ roll—that I neglected to remove while we were making out on my couch. Coming up for air, he said, “Get up and walk around.”

“What?”

“With your heels on, get up and walk around. I want to see you naked in your heels.”

I was unsure if I should feel flattered. No one had ever asked me to prance around buck naked in my high heels. I was caught off guard. I did contemplate it for a moment, and then I said no with a giggle. The rejection didn’t faze him. I asked him sarcastically, “Am I supposed to spank you, too?” We both laughed as he pulled me back down on top of him to finish what we had started.

The sex was just okay and we parted soon after. Chad, I think, felt more fulfilled than I did. For me it was an empty encounter, a moment in time I have no desire repeat. I was curious, and once that curiosity was satisfied, I knew with absolute certainty that cyber-sex is not my style. Neither are one-night stands with men I meet online.

Chad emailed me again for a hook-up about three months later, but I was not interested at all. My time with Chad was merely an investigation—another experiment in the science project.

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