A Man’s Thoughts on Men and Porn

  • Posted on: February 4th, 2009 by

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Today Eric of Eric031.com is guest blogging on the BadOnlineDates.com blog and he will be talking/writing about men and “sexy films” aka porn!

Men and Porn

I have been asked a few questions about men and porn from various people. Some of these questions include, “how do men view porn?”, “is he comparing me to these women?”, and “is there such a thing as too much porn?”. After doing some research, I have discovered that there are not too many articles that touch on this particular topic. This really surprised me given the wide variety of topics found on the internet. Before we can get to these specific questions, we must understand a difference in how men and women typically look for a mate.

Men and women look for very different things when it comes to mate selection.

Men tend to look for the women with the best genes; this basically means the women who are most attractive.

Women tend to look for a provider. This means someone strong and dominant, who can provide for a family.

This is true not only with humans but with animals as well. We all have seen the nature shows where the dominant male — the one that is the strongest or can make the most noise — impresses the female with some type of courtship ritual.

At this point I know exactly what you are thinking: “This science background is great but how does it relate to guys watching porn?” Well here’s how…

We have determined that guys are visual and try to seek out the best looking female. What better place is there to find attractive women then in porn? The women in porn have one job. That job is to look attractive and turn men on visually. Now we can answer some questions…

1. Why do men view porn?

Porn is a quick and easy way of filling a visual desire of sex. It can also be a way of fulfilling a desire that doesn’t put one at risk for STDs/STIs.

2. How do men view porn?

Men tend to compartmentalize things in their minds. This means that they can separate things into different categories. Porn is filed in the category of fantasy, whereas girlfriends are filed in the category of reality. Ideally, the two categories never meet or have anything in common with each other.

3. Is he comparing me to the women in porn?

The answer is entirely dependent on the individual man. In general, men know that these women are not a reality. The idea of dating a porn start might be appealing but very few men would seriously consider dating a porn star. The truth is that they want what YOU have to offer, which is something that a porn star could not.

4. Is there such a thing as too much porn?

Some religious groups view porn as a sin and are opposed to any form of it. Others are opposed to porn because of the negative implications it has towards women, men, and relationships. Furthermore, porn can become a problem if it turns into an addiction, and such an addiction can be extremely difficult to break. Some signs of porn addictions include:

-The inability to stop the behavior

-The inability to become aroused in the absence of it

-It consumes a lot of the person’s time

-It interferes with one’s life (relationships, job, etc)

-It consumes a lot of one’s finances

-They compare women/relationships to what they see in porn

-They view women as objects rather than people
(This is a huge problem in our society that really needs to be fixed)

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