Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t: Dressing for Sex

By Shilo Urban

When your mission for the night is not to have fun, socialize, schmooze or party hard but to HOOK UP, you can easily communicate that your light is “on” by what you choose to wear. There are plenty of not-so-subtle ways to convey to your date by what you wear that you are ready to hook-up. Tried and true methods of appearing DTF usually involve the letters “T” and “A” for women, while men can wear anything – we all know that you’re almost always down to mess around. Click here to read more…

A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… Distance Does NOT Make the Heart Grow Fonder

By Caitlin Thornton

Tell me a story about a couple that has been completely successful in their long-distance relationship. Really. Tell me all about it. Who are these people? How did they manage to stay together while at the same time being apart? Did the physical distance have them yearning to be together, more than ever? Or did it just make them sad and angry? Did one unrequitedly miss the other? Click here to read more…

Date Song Pick of the Week: Leonard Cohen – Dance Me to the End of Love

Leonard Cohen – Dance Me to the End of Love

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Date Song Pick of the Week: Noel Gallagher’s High Flying Birds – Don’t Look Back In Anger @ Coachella 2012

Noel Gallagher’s High Flying Birds – Don’t Look Back In Anger @ Coachella 2012

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A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… The Bittersweet Bliss of Ex Sex

By Caitlin Thornton

Two weeks after a completely mutual break up, Lucy* arranged a meeting with her now-ex to “exchange stuff.” Sure, he had some of her sweaters, and she had some of his comic books. But the reunion—scheduled for a Saturday afternoon at Lucy’s, when her roommates would be out—entailed much more than swapping goods both parties probably forgot even existed. Click here to read more…

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Online Sex Only?

Dear Sasha,
I am newly single after living with my ex for 3 years. He didn’t want to get married so I figured, since I do, and also want kids, that I needed to end the relationship, and to find a man that wants the same in life. Problem is, all the men that I’m meeting online seem to just want sex. I work a full time job, and making time to date is a challenge. Is there something that I’m doing to attract this Click here to read more…

Thoughts From a Bartender: How Has Technology Changed The First Date?

woman at bar

By: Lindsay Hopper

We live in a world where technology is everywhere. I remember when my family got our first computer over twelve years ago and now I basically walk around everyday with a computer in my purse. It’s in our cars, our finances, our work and our entertainment. And like everything, it definitely has it’s positives but it also has its negatives. Click here to read more…

About Jennifer

Jennifer Kelton

I have created this blog and social dating community to turn negative dating experiences into positive ones. In fact, it’s the exact opposite of what the name implies. It was my own life’s multiple combo plate of bad date experiences that inspired me to create this supportive community. In the midst of my own search […]

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