Sex and Dating Advice From a Porn Star – What Happens at Swingers Parties?
- by Jennifer on February 20th, 2012
By Nina Hartley
Dear Nina,
I’m 30 years old, and have been dating a guy for two months.
We have a great sex life — he recently asked me to go to a swingers party.
Honestly it’s a bit scary — what exactly goes on, are they safe, and what’s expected of me?
Sincerely,
To swing or not to swing?
Dear TSONTW,
Swing parties have come a long way since the 1970s, so everything you think you know about them is likely very out of date. I devote an entire chapter in my book, Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex to swing parties, which you many find helpful. Click here to read more…
Valentine’s Day Event: Date Detox Day – Feb. 15th, 2012 #DateDetox
- by Jennifer on February 8th, 2012
Hope For Disaster Daters
BadOnlinedates.com celebrates the day after Valentine’s Day
I’ve had it with Valentine’s Day! The pressure, the costs, the uncomfortable underwear and mostly the expectations that this ONE day a year is somehow a magic bullet for love.
This year I am NOT celebrating Valentine’s Day. This year I’m celebrating the day after Valentine’s Day and calling it…ready for this?
DATE DETOX DAY Click here to read more…
A Man’s POV How it Makes Me Feel When… She Expects a Romantic Valentine’s Day
- by Jennifer on February 7th, 2012
This may come as a bit of a surprise to many of you but I’m not a big fan of Valentine’s Day. But why? It’s a day for the celebration of love, right? The fact that it’s crammed into a 24-hour period coinciding with a retail marketing blitz after the lull of post-Christmas sales is purely coincidental, I’m sure. Click here to read more…
Date Song Pick of the Week: Snow Patrol – Open Your Eyes
- by Jennifer on February 6th, 2012
Snow Patrol – Open Your Eyes
Tuesday’s Topic: Best Ways to Detox After a Bad Date #DateDetox
- by Jennifer on February 6th, 2012
By Shilo Urban
Bad dates can leave lingering feelings of hopelessness and disgust, not to mention a dent on your self-esteem. Whether your date leered at the waitress while picking his nose, talked all night about his ex’s body piercings or insisted you check out the hair sculpture collection he carries in his man-purse, bad dates happen. Click here to read more…
Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Hooked on the Hook-Up?
- by Jennifer on January 30th, 2012
Dear Sasha,
I’m 25 and been meeting a lot of men on the online dating sites just for random hook-ups. I’m starting to feel like it’s an addiction, could it be?
Sincerely,
Hooked on the hook-up?
Date Song Pick of the Week: Neil Young – Cowgirl In the Sand (LIVE)
- by Jennifer on January 30th, 2012
Neil Young – Cowgirl In the Sand (LIVE) – Massey Hall, Toronto, Ontario
Date Song Pick of the Week: The Rolling Stones – Heart of Stone
- by Jennifer on January 23rd, 2012
The Rolling Stones – Heart of Stone
A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… We’re Not Exclusive
- by Jennifer on January 19th, 2012
When over brunch of bacon and eggs and lots and lots of coffee, the guy I’m seeing suggested we had an “open relationship.” I stopped shoveling yolk-soaked toast into my mouth and paused. “I didn’t think… we had an open relationship?” I said slowly. I cautiously reached for my coffee, maintaining eye contact. To me the open relationship label went to slutty, new-age-y college kids who couldn’t make up their minds (which I fit the bill for like, two years ago) and middle-aged married couples who just wanted to screw other people. Click here to read more…
