Fashion: What Not to Wear on a Winter Date

By Shilo Urban

The winter season is perfect for cozying up to your date next to a crackling fire, warm and with glasses of wine in hand as the wind howls outside. But while summertime lends itself to sexy sundresses, strappy sandals and cute skin-baring blouses, wintertime is the season of frump: shapeless coats, face-hiding hats and layers upon layers of clothing that create a barrier to any kind of frisky action. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t: You Wore WHAT in Bed?

By Shilo Urban

Unbuttoning the back of her dress slowly… peeling away his pair of pants… ripping apart your underwear and losing them altogether… Clothes have the potential to make sex even hotter.

But what if your date is wearing a saggy pair of granny panties? Or a shiny gold man-thong? Can the clothes you choose to wear become a deal-breaker for your date? Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t: Dressing for Sex

By Shilo Urban

When your mission for the night is not to have fun, socialize, schmooze or party hard but to HOOK UP, you can easily communicate that your light is “on” by what you choose to wear. There are plenty of not-so-subtle ways to convey to your date by what you wear that you are ready to hook-up. Tried and true methods of appearing DTF usually involve the letters “T” and “A” for women, while men can wear anything – we all know that you’re almost always down to mess around. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t: Manzilians — Brazilians for Guys?

Why I Got the ‘Manzilian’ Wax
Brazilians for guys? Increasingly popular, but not for the faint of heart
Newser

(Newser) – Jed Lipinksi didn’t realize it at first, but it would prove to be impossible for him to write a story about male waxing without getting waxed himself. After steadfastly declining several offers, Lipinski found himself getting a “Manzilian” from none other than Janea Padilha herself, the inventor of the Brazilian. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – Hello Kitty for Adults?

By Shilo Urban

Is Hello Kitty clothing on grown women cute – or a sign of regressed maturity?

Charlize Theron, who plays an emotionally stunted 30-something year old in her latest movie, Young Adult, said:

“I’m pretty amazed by Hello Kitty. I see so many women in their 30s walking around in Hello Kitty shit and nobody is concerned for them. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – Feeling Sexy Even While Freezing

By Caitlin Thornton

Everyone freaks out about fall fashion—for a few weeks. We’re so happy to pull out our boots, scarves, jackets, and other favorite pieces that have been forgotten about and stowed away all summer. Once the honeymoon phase of the first couple of cool-weather months wears off, though, we often get stuck in the unsexy sulk of hiding behind big, bulky winter garments and accepting a lackluster appearance somewhere between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – Coffee Stained T-Shirts


Alexander Wang, Sophie Theallet, and Billy Reid designed T-shirts for Starbucks.

By Shilo Urban

Just in case you haven’t given enough of your lifetime earnings to Starbucks on coffee dates for $4 lattes and $5 frappa-whatevers, the Seattle-based caffeine emporium has come up with a new way for you to support the global coffee industry: an $85 coffee-stained t-shirt. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – Influencing Your Guy’s Style (Without Treading on ‘Mom’ Territory)

By Caitlin Thornton

There’s nothing worse than a cute guy in a bad pair of khaki cargo shorts. No, wait: A cute guy wearing six-year-old khaki cargo shorts that have graduated high school, reigned in keg stand championship glory during college, and gained one too many nostalgic stains from that around-the-world, post-grad backpacking trip. It’s just tragic. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – Real vs. Fake Fashion


Image via peoplestylewatch.com

By Shilo Urban

This week’s launch for the Italian luxury line Missoni at the American discount store Target created not only a shopping frenzy and long lines early in the morning at stores across the nation, but also crashed Target’s website as shoppers scrambled to get a piece of the high-fashion line. Click here to read more…

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – Men’s Strapless Denim Tops


pic via i.imgur.com

By Shilo Urban

Denim on a date is usually a no-brainer. Casual, comfortable and easy to keep clean, denim is an important textile on which one might say our entire culture of casual style is based. Look around on any date and witness scores of upstanding citizens rocking the tried, the true and the blue: denim. Click here to read more…

About Jennifer

Jennifer Kelton

I have created this blog and social dating community to turn negative dating experiences into positive ones. In fact, it’s the exact opposite of what the name implies. It was my own life’s multiple combo plate of bad date experiences that inspired me to create this supportive community. In the midst of my own search […]

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