As a 42 year old woman I can honestly say that if I end up at a guys place that’s dirty, it’s a giant red flag — I have found it’s reflective of other things that are most likely going on in his life…
Years ago I dated a guy and his place was a complete mess — he ended up being a well functioning alcoholic, unfortunately he eventually drank himself to death. (Not to be a Debbie Downer here.)
However it’s a good example of what I’m talking about, he did not respect his living and sleeping environment enough to keep it clean and… well, in the end sadly he did not respect himself to clean out his body and stop drinking.
Here are some tips from Men’s Health… It’s pretty right on, at least based on my own personal life experience!
The 5-minute Solution for Cleaning Your Place