Dating Humor

  • Posted on: January 2nd, 2009 by

I wrote this article last year for Daily Dating Advice when it was a static site…

Anyway, I felt that this article was important to re-publish and to kick off the new year – humor is always a good thing as it creates a powerful connection between people.

Social Benefits of Laughter: Laughter connects us with others. Also, laughter is contagious, so if you bring more laughter into your life, you can most likely help others around you to laugh more, and realize these benefits as well. By elevating the mood of those around you, you can reduce their stress levels, and perhaps improve the quality of social interaction you experience with them, reducing your stress level even more! Stress and Laughter

I’ve gone out on a lot of dates in three decades of dating. The worst dates have always been humorless and filled with lots of dead air or would that be hot air? Without even a glimmer of a smile, giggle or chuckle. While dating humor can be subjective it’s also remarkably universal. Dating humor has the ability to change a very bad date to a great date, it’s just that simple.

Getting down to the nuts and bolts of dating humor I’m going to be extremely honest here it’s early in the morning you are still fast asleep and “wow” his or her impressively dreadful morning breath is the 6:00 a.m. wake-up-call that has just kick started your day from a peaceful deep sleep, within moments he or she makes an incredibly funny joke about his or her extreme case of combustible halitosis, and within seconds he or she becomes the cute, wonderful and hilariously funny guy/girl with bad breath that you had a fantastic and unforgettable night with. Let’s reenact that same exact sour smell moment and early morning wake call but now he or she lays there breathing his or her fire mouth filled with last nights heavy garlic dinner and red wine saying absolutely nothing. Do I hear a dead silence and the sound of running feet, and an opening and shutting of the front door?

Dating humor is bonding and can save a relationship, transforming a tragic situation “hello Mr. or Ms. fire mouth” to a light hearted situation that can actually strengthen, join and bring two people closer together.

I have an old boyfriend that to this day makes me laugh and when I think back to our always very funny first dates together it was his dating humor that I was most attracted to, it was his sense of humor that helped me to over look his flaws and things that historically with other men I would not have been able to look over. I’m not saying that we all need to rush down to our local theater, Learning Annex, improvisation groups or your local community college comedy course 101 for comedy lessons and comedy school but I am saying that in life and in dating sometimes taking a look at things from a light hearted humorous point of view, that involves a snicker, snort, giggle or laughing so hard it makes your face hurt and you get a serious case of the hiccups this will not only save your date but just take a look at all the other positive things below that you will also benefit from with some dating humor and laughter.

Remember that even in the most difficult of times, a laugh, or even simply a smile, can go a long way in helping us feel better
• Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.
• Humor unites us, especially when we laugh together.
• Laughter heals.
• Laughs and smiles are enjoyed best when shared with others.
• To laugh or not to laugh is your choice.
Mental Health Benefits of Laughter
• Humor enhances our ability to affiliate or connect with others.
• Humor helps us replace distressing emotions with pleasurable feelings. You cannot feel angry, depressed, anxious, guilty, or resentful and experience humor at the same time.
• Lacking humor will cause one’s thought processes to stagnate leading to increased distress.
• Humor changes behavior – when we experience humor we talk more, make more eye contact with others, touch others, etc. • Humor increases energy, and with increased energy we may perform activities that we might otherwise avoid.
• Finally, humor is good for mental health because it makes us feel good! Humor and Health

  • I preferred to date a guy with a great sense of humor as they can drive interesting topics to talk to. besides, you’ll never get boring having them as your pal…=)

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Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer Kelton CEO / founder LLC is a Los Angeles native and a pioneer in the worldwide dating industry, investigating the game of love while providing encouragement and support since 2007, starting with the acclaimed dating book Don’t Use My Sweater like a Towel. An accomplished CEO, visionary and entrepreneur, Kelton’s work in the […]

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