Political Talking Points for Holiday Parties

Politics and parties — BadOnlineDates.com staff writer Liz Funk gives us some useful dating tips to get you through the holiday season.

Thanks Liz and Happy Holidays!

By Liz Funk

When it comes to holiday dinners and cocktail parties with the family,
it’s bad enough enduring your Uncle Bob lamenting “the idiot liberals”
(or, “the idiot conservatives,” depending on your political bearings)
when you hold said political viewpoints near and dear to your heart.
But when it’s your date’s Uncle Bob ranting to you at the dinner table, it’s a slightly different problem. What’s a gracious guest to do?

After the political season we’ve had, this December is bound to present some spirited debates at holiday parties. So before you leave home for the holiday parties, you should know how to get through a conversation with someone who says things about politics that conflict with your views… without offending anyone or betraying what you believe.

If the person you’re dating has invited you to a holiday party for work/family/close friends, that’s something to celebrate, and you want to make a great impression. So before you leave for the party, see if you can gauge the topic of political views in the family/social circle so you’ll be prepared when seated at dinner next to the Uncle Who Wishes He Was Bill O’Reilly (or Wishes He Were Rachel Maddow!). If your significant other’s family is well connected within the Republican Party or if your date’s best woman friend who is throwing the party you’re attending sits on the board of a women’s organization, you definitely want to know. And while it’s generally considered impolite to talk about politics during leisure occasions and people shouldn’t put you in an awkward situation, you want to be prepared.

So, here are some careful and polite responses for Bad Online Daters on both sides of the political spectrum who find themselves in an unwelcome political dialogue.

Someone says, “We’re all Democrats (or Republicans) here. What are you?”
You say: “I’m fiscally (pick liberal, moderate, or conservative), and socially (pick liberal, moderate, or conservative).” Regardless of how long you’ve been with the person who took you to this party, you don’t want to be other-ed if you don’t have the same beliefs as everyone else, and you also don’t want to alienate anyone else in the room that perhaps doesn’t agree with the family’s politics but isn’t saying anything. Your best bet is so give an ambiguous answer such as the above that creates opportunities for people to agree with you, rather than straight-out saying what party you belong to.

Someone says, “It’s funny to think that four years ago, we elected Bush for a second term, and today we elected a black president with the middle name Hussein! How did that happen?”
You say: “Yes, this year has really overturned the precedent.” Comments like this are just a landmine waiting to explode (you definitely don’t want to comment on race or ‘Hussein’ at a party), so it’s better to keep your response short and polite to questions that are rather loaded, and then give the person you’re talking to a compliment or ask him a question about himself to take the conversation somewhere new.

Someone says, “Can you believe the Supreme Court’s decision on blah-blah-blah?”
You say: Gulp. If you’ve never heard of it, don’t pretend that you have—that could get messy. But if you sense that this is a major happening and you don’t want to make it look like you don’t read the newspaper, you can shift the conversation. You can say: “Oh, are you very interested in national politics? My college roommate is now an aide on the Hill and it seems positively fascinating. Would you ever consider a job in politics?”

Once you have these practiced responses down pat, the only thing you have to strategize about at the party is how to lure your sweetheart under the mistletoe!






Not Dating Related – But – Really Old Random Pictures….

I made this video yesterday for one of my other blogs nerdgirlsagogo.com.

It has nothing to to with dating but a lot about my life.

Figured it was worth while to post here — since it shows that I’m a “real” person here on the Internet and in life. ( The opening picture is me at four years old.)

Combo-plate of random old pictures I put together — from when I was 4 years old in 1969 to early 2003 – various travels and different experiences.






Podcast — When Guys Bail Without Warning

I was inspired to talk about this subject based on an article in the October issue of Cosmopolitan.

Has this ever happened to you?

Click Here to Listen when-guys-bail-without-warning-9-13-08






First Appearances…

Yesterday as I was driving in my neighborhood beach community after just getting back from Vegas, I saw this embroidered in the back of the guys car seat cover – yes it reads, “Fuck You, You Fucking Fuck!”

As I watched him drive a bit aggressively — I did have to wonder what he attracts in his life?

If he’s a single guy does he pick up his dates in this car? It’s a pretty offensive blurb and statement.
Actually scary! Not to mention the road rage issues that already exist here in L.A. why would you open yourself up to more?

I took this picture as an obvious example and a good reminder of how we judge people… If this guy was my date and I saw this in his car as a life choice I would NOT go out with him! YIKES!

Even weirder he had a bumper sticker the read “Maui.”

What do you think?






In Las Vegas

I’m leaving in the morning for the New Media Expo in Las Vegas.
I will do my very best to keep up with my daily posts while I’m there till Sunday, August the 16th.






Under Construction

Please excuse the construction dust. The blog was just moved from Blogger to WordPress yesterday.
It should be back in shape in a day or two, till then you can visit another blog that I just launched NerdGirlsAGoGo.com, and check out the new site features at BadOnlineDates.com.






Immature and Sex-Mad?

Not us say men, according to this Reuters July 24, 2008 article.






What Guys Think About…

I think these guys have some good points, but I do think that confidence speaks volumes – no matter what a woman is wearing.

One huge fashion don’t – anything that has writing across your ass!

When I was at the airport flying out of Cancun on Monday, there was a women in front of me at check-in that had ”Lotta’ Love” written largely across her sweat pant wearing ass!

My guess is that she was in her mid to late 30’s, bottom line it just looked stupid, and her friend smacked her gum and blew bubbles, DON’T be that girl!

Men vent on their favorite (and not so favorite) women’s fashion trends.






Saturday Night Live

This is super funny!
Ah – the joys of getting picked up by men at a bar!

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Jennifer Kelton CEO / founder Badonlinedates.com LLC is a Los Angeles native and a pioneer in the worldwide dating industry, investigating the game of love while providing encouragement and support since 2007, starting with the acclaimed dating book Don’t Use My Sweater like a Towel. An accomplished CEO, visionary and entrepreneur, Kelton’s work in the […]

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